Let's not get too frustrated.
There's two ways to look at this. First as a piece of personal expression, and second as a representation of the movement. As personal expression, Carol is free to put whatever she wants on the DD. If it was going up in a gallery, I'd have little to say about it. But as an relatively well known promotional campaign within the movement she also has some responsibility to the movement itself.
This thing has been around since before we were concerned about the 'big tent', and has not really changed that much over the years. We have seen some links come and go, but generally, the DD has represented a wide spectrum of movement resources. We can hope for an ever increasing quality of links, but that's just being optimistic. And Carol must hear arguments coming from every side. I'm sure she is doing the best she can.
So we really have no new bone to pick. We were happy to be included 10 months ago on the last version of the Billion Dollar note. We are still on that note in the same place. And we aren't too concerned about this leading to death by association, as we figure most people looking at the sites on the DDs will recognize some obvious differences between them.
Anyway, that's my tempered response. Yet truthmod's frustration is still understandable to me considering the dubious nature of some of the sites included. We should certainly offer our critique.